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Living in the Moment


Morning ladies!

I am in Pittsburgh, visiting with my mom, brothers and sister. My mom will come back to Charlotte with us and visit for a few weeks. So, I am not home, when you read this post, but I wanted to share this anyway. How many times do you stop and smell the roses?

‘The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment, wisely and earnestly. -Budda’

What made me think of this topic? I began thinking about this after attending the rock concert last Saturday. If you missed it, you can read my post about My Rock Concert Experience.  How many times do we have our list in mind, what are we planning to do, thinking of the next vacation, when we are on one, not bothering to look at what beauty there is around us.

I noticed, while at the concert, the myriad of people around me taking video, and pictures during the concert. I do realize people want to remember events, but a couple of pictures would do. I thought to myself, how do  you enjoy the moment, the music, look at the facial expressions on the bandmates, if you are worried about getting pictures throughout the show? I enjoyed the show like I was back in 1984, minus the Aqua Net hairspray and big hair.

We noticed the obvious difference with metal detectors when we first came in to the stadium, but i wasn’t going to be using my phone. I kept it tucked into my purse, in case I got lost in the swarm of people waiting for the restroom between breaks. I listened. i enjoyed the playing, the atmosphere and the energy of the crowd. It was so wonderful to just “be there ‘ in the moment.

I do think social media plays a role with not being in the moment. When I first joined Instagram, I was taking pictures of some of my food. And then I thought, “why am I doing this?” Who cares what I am eating? I needed to just enjoy the smells of the delicious food put in front of me, the taste, and the company i was with.  Facebook is all about the past and past memories, not that you don’t want to reminisce, but you don’t want it to become your main area of focus.

My husband used to say, when we were on vacation, i would start talking about the next place we were going to go. I have learned to appreciate the here and now.  I do think that by doing this, I have appreciated things more, able to see joy in things i might not have otherwise.

When I was very sick, at the beginning stages of my disease, I would worry and fear that i would never get to do things i want in life, that I would be in bed, and that my life was just a mere fraction of what it used to be. I thought i would be in severe pain forever. Thinking this way, does not help.  It is a difficult thing to live in the moment, at times, but it can also be life changing.

Try enjoying the scents and scenery around you. I blog outside on our deck and enjoy watching the squirrels and birds outside.  Mindfulness can be practiced, as our natural tendency may be to think about the future, dwell on the past . Try it . I am trying to be more mindful myself and by doing so, it gives me a bit of peace, of less stress.

Do you live in the moment?   Have you ever practiced mindfulness?

Have a wonderful weekend.

Jess xo

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  • Suzanne
    Posted at 16:02h, 25 June Reply

    I do try to practice being in the moment. It is important to ensuring our lives don’t pass us by. It isn’t always easy. It seems our attention spans have shrunken over the years. People feel if they aren’t constantly being stimulated by something every second they are lost. They don’t know how to “just be”. It is such a shame.


    • Jess
      Posted at 17:35h, 25 June Reply

      Hi Suzanne! So true, living day to day, you can appreciate the moment, the company you are with. Yes, instant gratification and constant stimulation is our society. It is a shame when people don’t slow down and just enjoy being. Thxfir popping by
      Jess xx

  • FetchCandle
    Posted at 15:30h, 17 June Reply

    I don’t think I intentionally practice mindfullness, but I am living more consciously for over a year now. I never use mobile phones during concerts – the footage is always terrible anyway and I much more prefer to enjoy the music and notice more details.

    • Jess Jannenga
      Posted at 21:40h, 18 June Reply

      Hi Dorota!
      I think it is great that you are being more aware over the past year. I have been working on mindfulness and just enjoying the moment. Life is full of moments we need to treasure and enjoy! i am with you on the concerts and cell phones! xx

  • Jess Jannenga
    Posted at 11:25h, 17 June Reply

    Hi Heather, yes we enjoy taking photos for memories, but I do think it is about the day to day. i am getting better as well, when we go somewhere to not start thinking abou tthe next trip. xx

  • Jodie
    Posted at 09:19h, 15 June Reply

    It’s a hard balance sometimes. I love taking photos (even before social media) to have the remembrances on paper. But it is important to put it down and enjoy too!!

    • Jess Jannenga
      Posted at 11:23h, 17 June Reply

      Yes Jodie, it is important to step away and just live for the day and moment. Trying to really appreciate what is around us, with awareness

  • thisblondesshoppingbag
    Posted at 06:56h, 15 June Reply

    I agree, live in the moment, put the camera down! Drives me crazy. Yes, I try to remind myself to live in the moment, I am pretty good most times but it seems to depend on how busy things are. I hope you are having a wonderful time with your family! Have a wonderful weekend beautiful friend!

    • Jess Jannenga
      Posted at 11:24h, 17 June Reply

      Hi Kellyann! Yes, very true. Glad you enjoyed the post. We had a blast at the party! x

  • Laurie
    Posted at 02:41h, 15 June Reply

    I’m with you on this Jess. Sometimes all the media stuff needs to be put away so you can suck up the moment and enjoy xx

  • Heather Lord
    Posted at 01:09h, 15 June Reply

    Yes!! I have to remind myself of this. When I’m on a road trip, I’m always thinking about the next place we’re driving to, but I’m getting better at catching myself. I do use Facebook as a sort of diary, and post pictures when I’m having coffee with my Mum, but for me it’s a way of preserving the moment, making memories for the time when she is no longer here.

    • Jess Jannenga
      Posted at 12:05h, 17 June Reply

      I am the same. I am making a consciecious effort to enjoy the moment and have been practicing mindfulness. I understand wanting to create memories as well.

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